美REE的部落格

The thing is, each one of us is the sum total of every moment that we've ever experienced,with all the people we've ever known.
And it's these moments that become our history.
Like our own personal greatest hits of memories that we play and replay in our minds over and over again.
That these moments of impact define who we are.
But what I never considered...was
what if, one day, you could no longer remember any of them?

I vow to help you love life,to always hold you with tenderness,
and to have the patience that love demands.
To speak when words are needed,and to share the silence when they're not.
And to live within the warmth of your heart and always call it home.

[I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever.
I promise to never forget that this is a once-in-a-lifetime love.
And to always know in the deepest part of my soul
that no matter what challenges might carry us apart,that we'll always find the way back to each other.]

You can't remember how we met.
And you can't remember how we fell in love.
And in a way, yeah, that sucks.
But that was the greatest time of my life.
I just thought how cool it would be to get to experience it all over again.
Like reading your favorite book for the first time.
[Exactly.  - Got you.]
Which is why I want to ask you out on a date.
[A date?]
Like two people that are just meeting for the first time.
This is the exact parking spot where we first met.
I'm gonna take you on a little retrospective of us.

I think we need to start being realistic.
Your memory's not coming back.
The fact is that I'm still just a stranger.
I'm not trying to hurt you.
But I'm just...
I'm so tired of disappointing you.
I'm so sorry.
Wedding disasters have a way of turning into great stories.Eventually.

[How do you look at the girl you love ,and tell yourself it's time to walk away?]

I hope one day I can love the way that you love me.

[You figured it out once.You'll do it again.]

We were a family.
And I realized in that moment
that was the most important thing in the world for me.
And I couldn't, I couldn't,I could not go.
I chose to stay with him
for all the things that he had done right
and not to leave him for the one thing that he had done wrong.
I chose to forgive him.

A moment of impact.
A moment of impact whose potential for change has ripple effects far beyond what we can predict,
You can't control how they're gonna affect you,
no matter how hard you try,
You just gotta let the colliding particles land where they may
and wait until the next collision.