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About reIationships.

There are those that open you up to something new and exotic...
those that are old and familiar...
those that bring up lots of questions...
those that bring you somewhere unexpected...
those that bring you far from where you started...
and those that bring you back.
But the most exciting, challenging,and significant relationship of all...
is the one you have with yourseIf.

And if you find someone to love the ''you'' you love...

...well, that's just fabulous.

I know I screwed it up, but I will love you forever.
It wasn't logic.
It was love.

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Then I realized it.
What was wrong was,for the first time in my life,
I was in a relationship where absolutely nothing was wrong.
It's smooth sailing.
Nothing but calm seas, blue horizons.
See what I'm saying?
Absolutely. Not a cloud in sight.
We adore each other.
We have fun. We match.
It feels odd.
I'm used to the hunt.
[I totally understand.
You're not getting the stomach flip.
Which is just a fear of losing the guy.]
Maybe I'm not used to being with someone who doesn't do the seductive withholding dance.

While Samantha enjoyed the thrill of the new and Miranda's relationship happily floated on a placid sea.
I was searching for hidden icebergs.
The irony is Aidan's acting exactly how I wish Big would have behaved.
And I'm behaving just like Big.

Maybe you don't believe it's for real unless somebody plays hard to get.

When things come too easy,we're suspect.
Do they have to get complicated before we believe they're for real?
We're raised to believe that true love never runs smoothly.
There always have to be obstacles in Act Two before you can live happily ever after in Act Three.

But what happens when the obstacles aren't there?
Does that mean there's something missing?
Do we need drama to make a relationship work?

I realized then, that I had made my stomach flip all on my own.

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